“Criticism is an indirect form of self boosting”, Emmet Fox a spiritual leader of The Great Depression Era said this. Well, we all have suffered criticism at a point of time in our life. It could be at our school or at work. This form of self boosting might work for some but it could be a major reason behind one’s low self-esteem. Criticism is an inevitable part of life. Without criticism, there is no motivation.
How well someone handles criticism says a lot about their approach towards life. If someone gets cranky or angry when they face criticism they are said to be showing a negative approach whereas someone who acknowledges it and works towards it is said to portray a positive approach.
Like every coin has two sides the internet does too. Some people use it as a source of communication whereas some use to troll others. Trolling is a new way of mocking someone. Out of everyone on this face of the earth, famous personalities are the topmost priority of trollers. They are eagerly waiting for a mistake to be done so that they can troll the person. Anatasia Reshetova. the former Miss Russia participant was trolled for the most absurd reason.
Like many other celebrities, Anatasia changed her name. Before becoming Anatasia by which she is popularly known as she was known by Nastyukha which was her birth name. She was given Natsya as her nickname. Anatasia did not have a happy home instead she belonged to a broken home. When she was a little kid, her parents got divorced and parted their ways. Her world turned upside down with this drastic change. She spent her childhood with her father and a baby sister who loved her a lot.
One day after school hours Anatasia was all ready to leave the school and go home. Until she was surrounded by 3 kids who not only bullied her but also beaten her till she was brutally bruised. That day she came home covered her bruises with foundation and wore a hoodie so that no one comes to know what happened in school. This was not the end, later she was even compared to a horse and giraffe because of being the tallest one.
Anyone else would have just given up and surrendered to the circumstances but even after facing a lot of criticism and bad behavior Anatasia kept quiet. Even when the incident took place she remained silent. No one came to know how badly she was beaten and being treated at school. She stands with a strong independent attitude and says, ” I hate complaining to someone, I think it’s humiliating.”
Anastasia’s father was a military man who followed a very strict routine. He made sure that his daughter follows the same military rule. He made his daughters wake up early morning. Before going to school both Reshetova sisters had to do their daily exercises followed by making their bed and cleaning up the room. They had to do each and every chore of the day before stepping out for school. Anastasia knew that this kind of lifestyle was not she ever wanted. She was never meant to stay in such a strict routine.